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Us adults need to do better!

Recently I joined a Facebook group for maximalist design.


I posted the photos of our home.


I am completely aware that our home is not for everyone. We are very eccentric, colorful and we have a lot of odd things.


The one thing I've learned in the last 46 years is my home is my home, it is a place that my heart lives, a place that I feel safe and a place that I want the things that bring me and my husband joy surrounding us at all times.


Regardless of how weird the decor may seem to other people. I gave up the idea of trying to impress other people with what my home looks like years ago! And everyone who's ever came over to visit has always commented how fun and interesting our house, is whether it was a friend or the furnace guy or someone trying to sell us something, lol.


So I thought it would be fun and thought it was neat to find a group that may share my same Love of home decor.


I got a lot of beautiful amazing comments on the post but then I got a lot of hate and ugly comments on the post. As I sat there reading the comments, I realized that I don't have to be a part of a group where adults are mean to other adults and say such awful things about their home when they don't even know me or have even come over.